Last month, a quiet dinner marked an extraordinary milestone in the life of a teenager named Tom* and his mother, Angie*. After 12 years in out-of-home care, Tom officially returned to his mother’s care, celebrating the love and resilience that brought them back together.
Tom’s story began when he entered care as a toddler, experiencing multiple placements and facing challenges that left him withdrawn and disconnected from his family. Over the years, he lost contact with Angie and had little connection with his siblings, father, and grandparents, who lived in another city. The years apart created a deep divide, but Tom’s story took a hopeful turn when he was placed through CASPA.
Recognising the importance of family, CASPA’s team set to work exploring permanency options for Tom. They understood the vital role kinship and connection play in helping young people heal and thrive. Slowly, the team began rebuilding the bridge between Tom and Angie.
With the support of his caseworker, Tom started reconnecting with his mother through phone calls, video chats, and short visits. Angie, too, began her own journey, confronting feelings of guilt and disempowerment while finding the strength to rebuild her relationship with her son.
Tom’s transition into a kinship care placement with his older brother and sister-in-law was a turning point. Surrounded by family, he found stability and began reconnecting with his siblings and Angie in a meaningful way.
In time, Angie demonstrated significant positive changes in her life, giving CASPA the confidence to explore the possibility of Tom returning to her care permanently. Over the next two years, CASPA provided dedicated support to Tom and his family, guiding them through the transition and ensuring they were ready for this life-changing step.
Today, Tom is thriving as a confident teenager. He excels in school, works part-time, and is surrounded by the love and support of his family. Tom’s story shows the profound impact of family restoration, where safe and possible, in transforming lives.
Are you interested in becoming a carer? CASPA welcomes diverse carers from all walks of life. Whether you’re looking to provide full-time care or a home-away-from-home for young people needing short-term support, you can make a difference.
*Names have been changed for privacy.
